Hey listen to me I realize that this is the season of giving but in my eyes you can only give someone so much. Nothing you give can be forced on a person. They have to want it as much as you want to give it. It’s a want a give-take transaction and sad to say but that’s how life is. And when you give them something they might use it for it exact position. Example if you give a person a foot cream and they use it for their face. You should feel bad about how they used it because you thought about them to give them that gift so if anything you should feel great.