To Understand Each Others Love

The one thing that we should all know about love is that it’s confusing sometime and you don’t know if you’re doing the right thing to show your love.


However, one thing is for sure you guys understand each other’s language the way you talk to the way you walk and that’s how you may determine what to do next. By looking and feeling the energy of your spouse you can know how to motivate them or get them comfortable for a cuddle session. Either way you know each-other and that’s great for a relationship.


One thing I thought about is could I have a relationship where the other person understands my toothpaste talk, while others just hear noise they actually hear me speak. I don’t know what I thought about it but it sounds nice.

My First GAY PRIDE !!!

So yesterday was one of the best times of my life as I went to MY FIRST PRIDE! It was so insightful and also thrilling, the person I was when I went in was not the same i was when I left out. Whether it be the experience that I had or the fact that I swam in a pond that was grey. Whatever it was I still had a great time. This social events give us a chance to contact with people who you had no idea exist, to see people that had to deal with the same burden of coming out to their loved ones as you did. And there this adventure you come together with jello shot, dance parties, beads, and a lot of sexy men wearing barely any clothes.

Now as I walked there the crowd I did see some interesting things like people popping their butts in a dance that I could only think about doing or people making out when I’m a little scared to touch the person whom I’m supposed to be in a relationship with. All I can say it that Pride is an experience itself! Nevertheless I still have a thought that straight boys come to Pride to either see what it means to be gay, which is ok, or to tease us with their hot bodies, which is ok too.


So what I say to you is if you ever get a chance to go to Pride in whatever city or state take chance you won’t regret.


A Black Man’s Barber

One thing that I can never live without is my barber in my life, yes I’ve had many but it’s only because I’ve move around. It wasn’t until I got older did I realize that the person cutting my hair, cleaning up my tapeline, and making me look fly on my first day of school is part of my family. This person whomever they were would talk to you about anything; sport, music, and even comedy. The place that people come do maybe twice a month is also a place to rant about life struggles and things you can’t believe happened. So if you’re feeling stress and your hair is a mess check out your nearest barber shop and let me know what happens.  

i want to look like HIM.

So recently made a post about telling yourself lies. And I explained how you should stop doing, so I thought I might add on to it. The reason for these picture is because they are a reminder for me of what I want to look like. I know it seem like its over rated and heck some of these might even be edited but for me its a goal.


However with this goal I try to make it every month and then month turn out to be years. So I come to the thought that we haven’t achieve something because we can’t endure the struggle. With working out most people don’t understand that you cant just eat everything that they want to and for them that might be a struggle or some don’t even have the time to work out. However thats life if you want a body like these people you have to work for it. There is no short cuts in life so there will be none for you. If you work at it and stay determined you can achieve anything and I believe thats.



The High Life

High Life- It’s a way of life. It’s not just about how you dress or what you smokin’. When you’re high life livin’, it means you’re living without boundaries or limits. We don’t follow rules or copy the next man, originality is the key people!! (Urban Dictionary)

I see that the high life last in moments and those are the moments that count. Those are the ones that make your groove to your favorite song or the ones the make you feel like your are a million bucks. Those are the ones that count.

You may not know it or even see it but the average joe has these moments and so does everyone else. Its when they sing their lungs out in the shower or when their dancing and grooving on the kitchen floor. These are their moment that make them feel all high and mighty.

Celebrities have them too when they release a hit song or their movie is the best in the box office; those are their high life moments and yeah they might party in these moments but to them it might not come lightly.

You see these things never come lightly, they come with hard work and dedication.

However what i have to say is that in these moments when you feel like you are a living high life do something good and do it to better   YOURSELF

5 Things To Make Life Better 

Five things, some times all it takes is five things to make your life better and it does take long. These are activities that allow a person to feel better about themselves so that its not so much body negative in life or negativity in general.

With this video you never know you might make a new best friend or do something that can change how you see the world, it honestly all up to you.

So if you have some time in you day to day life I recommend this video free of charge by @tyleroakley .


Courage is something that as we grow me must learn, it is something that may someday challenge us to do daring things. However with those daring things there can be great success. The thing is if you feel like you gonna die doing something 9 times out of 10 you should do it. Because when you have that feeling that dying felling you should know what you are doing is right. Courage is a sub section of experience it fuel or experiences into what we are willing and not willing to do.

Courage is what allows us to believe in things, like is you’re a parent you need to have courage that yes your child is going out in the real world but with courage you say that I did what I have to do and I raised them right. It’s ok to lack courage because no one is born with but as you go on with life don’t run away from things.

Another thing is that courage is not peer-pressure and don’t let anyone tell you that. Wanted to do something and someone making you do something are two completely different things however the courage is when you say no to under age drinking, gun violence, and drugs.

What I want to let you guys know is that it’s time to build up your courage so that way you can do more with you life. Maybe get that job promotion or start a career and not a job heck quit your job. But if there is something that I can say is go out in the world have courage and get things done.

Working for Success: Entitlement 

People work everyday and every week trying to grab enough money to make ends meet. However nowadays people feel as if though they are entitled to something. The fact is if you think you are owed something in this world you are stupid. If you want something out of your life and out of this world you have to work hard to go get it. Life ain’t easy and neither will working be but if you want something that bad you will do what you have to do.

With work because worth is what I always say. To get the worth out of life you have to put the work in. Blood, sweat, and tears are what birth the success of this nation and if will birth your successfulness. The thought that someone will just give it to you is only in your imagination you have to do what you believe will get you to where you want to be and not wait on others.

Ur Almost to Love: Part Two

A long time ago I made a video your almost to love and it was to explain the fact that no matter what happens in life there will be heart break and that just means your closer to your love. But now to day I want to reinvent what I have said to help others looking for love.

Love and Like is something we always get tongue tied on whether it be a person or a place or even a food we feel some type of emotion towards it and with that emotion you get connected. When connect you feel that you have certain responsibly to that Love or Like situation you feel that you need to always and only eat this type of food or this is the only hotel that gonna treat you right or you feel like even if the person you feel deeply invested in starts to yell at you, you feel like you have the responsible to take it. And I’m here to tell you straight up that that’s not the case even though you have a connection does no mean you have to take care of that person day in and day out you have a life too. I believe you should live your life to the fullest because there are always fish in the sea.

You as a person are bound by no person no male or female you have the right to walk away,but if you don’t I understand maybe its because they have no one else to talk to and you and you want to be that person, but when you have a conversation there should be no yelling and one person should not leave the conversation feeling bad about what happened. You should be a united front to where you figure out things together because even one feelings matters and that includes your. So even though you feel connected to that person or that things and of you are mad, don’t yell and fight with one another listen and understand that’s the best way to solve a problem. So now  I say to you.

Fully understand the problem

Encourage one other

Listen closely

Individuals matter

People have feelings

Even one needs to be united


A Helping Hand

A helping hand is something that we use as much as possible whether it be to help us to get there our daily life style.

We always need a helping hand and there is nothing wrong for asking for it.The hand is there because it is there to guild us it is there to help us and lead us into a world of unknown. Asking is never a sin because knowledge bring power and having power over your life is the best thing that you can do for yourself. With your helping hand that is what allow you to get out of bed in the morning those hands are what opens your eye in the morning. So I say to you if you are in need of help do not hesitate to ask because those who ask with receive.